November 15, 2008

Well most of you probably know that Josh and I have been struggling with our relationship lately. We went to a councilor on Friday and will continue to go twice a week until we can get our relationship under wrap. Then we will continue to go once a week until we feel better about our relationship and then I would still like to continue to go once a month until the councilor tells us not to come back until we run into more problems!! We love our councilor we are going to the LDS family services one. We have agreed that it is time that we move on move out of the in-laws house for the better of our relationship. We hope to be moved out at the first of the year. Josh wants to buy a condo or a foreclosure home, although I would like to move into an apartment until we get more of our bills under control. We will keep you update on how that goes. The reason I am writing about this is to let people know how important it is that if you are having problems in your relationship don't live in anger or depression go and get help. Just that one session helped us so much and we are actually excited to go back! It doesn't just have to be marital problems but any problems don't just live with it fix it!!!! I hope to get over some of my anger issues hurt and resentment wish us the best!!!!

2 comments:

Braydan and Jessica said...

Sounds like you guys are doing the right thing. Good Luck!

Nyman's said...

Good for you, don't let the marriage suffer. I do think living with the in-laws would be very very hard. Its much easier out on your own... once your married you have to be on your own working through issues together instead of with everyone involved..I hope it all works out for the best!